Am I Transgender?2021-02-18T16:03:10-07:00

Am I Transgender?

Do you struggle with your own gender identity? You’re not alone, let’s work through some of your questions together. On this page, you will find a quiz that will help you answer a handful of gender-related questions, frequently asked questions and content others in similar situations have found helpful.

Am I Transgender?

Do you struggle with your own gender identity? You’re not alone, let’s work through some of your questions together. On this page, you will find a quiz that will help you answer a handful of gender-related questions, frequently asked questions and content others in similar situations have found helpful.

Advice from a Transgender Woman

If given the opportunity to give one word of advice to someone considering transitioning it would be: don’t be afraid to try new things. If anything you do scares you or gives you an undesired result, it’s okay to take a step back. Just like clothing, transitioning is not a one size fits all. It takes time to discover who you are and what you like. So allow yourself some room for messing up. Not all cis-gendered women have the easiest time with hair, makeup, nails and clothing so why would you expect yourself to be perfect at it overnight? Practice makes perfect.

Never let your mental health take a hit. You do not have to go through your transitioning alone. Check out this list of trusted professionals here. Or look for a gender therapist near you to explore your options. Many therapists can even point you to other medical professionals if you’re looking to seek HRT or any other transition-related surgeries.

Ultimately not understanding your gender doesn’t mean you’re trans. There are many other terms associated with laying somewhere in the middle or simply enjoying the occasional cross-dressing. The quiz above will walk you through a series of questions that will make you think about what you desire. Because in the end, the choice is all yours.

FAQ

What causes someone to be transgender?

Limited studies show biologically, transgender women have similar brain structures as those to cisgender women’s and unlike cis men’s, or somewhere between the two. Genetically, trans women have a longer receptor gene than cis men which is less effective at binding testosterone. Environmental upbring has been proven to not be a factor by a study of David Reimer see more information here.

How many people are Transgender?

This number is small & there is no possible way to be for sure, but a survey conducted in 2016 by Williams Insitute estimates 0.6% of US adults identify as transgender while other statistics range from 1.2% to 6.8%. The most important part is realizing you’re not alone, even at the smallest percentage of 0.6%, that's still 1,963,200 transgender people in the US alone.

Is gender dysphoria a mental disorder?

No. Gender dysphoria is the presence of clinically significant distress associated with the gender or sex assigned at birth (i.e. the desire to not have the privates given at birth). Dysphoria can cause an increase in stress, anxiety, depression and potentially result in, suicidal thoughts/actions, eating disorders and substance abuse. If you or a loved one suffers from gender dysphoria, please reach out for help. You can find a list of free, trustworthy professionals ready to help you here.

Can you legally change your gender without surgery?

Depending on where you’re located yes you can. Most states (USA) will permit a name and gender change on a birth certificate by amending an existing or issuing a new one. Some states do require medical proof of SRS (sexual reassignment surgery) to make this change.

Do I have to have surgery to be transgender?

No. Being transgender does not have a one method fits all option. Every step within transitioning is optional. Many individuals who want to conceive children wait till after childbirth to start HRT (hormone replacement therapy). Some individuals will start and stop HRT after reaching a preset goal or surgical need (for example: to grow breast tissue for undergoing a breast augmentation).

Can a transgender person ever find love?

Yes. A huge part of dating is knowing what people are looking for. Two important qualities when looking for love is to have: confidence and genuineness. Being your most authentic self allows both these traits to glow with ease. Regardless of where you plan on going with your transition, there is always a special someone out there for you. Have faith in yourself.

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